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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationships Coach , writes…

What if you were sure, you absolutely believed that your finances, your body, your love life, your children, your career, your house, and everything else in your experience was absolutely PERFECT – just the way it is right now?!

How about if your mind, your present mindset was that your entire life – just as it is at this moment – barring any changes, or desire for any change, was perfect?

That is the meaning of an UNCONDITIONAL LIFE.

Think about that for a minute. Unconditionally living means that nothing needs to be different for you to experience freedom, joy, peace, abundance, and fulfillment. What a concept.

Many times we as deliberate creators desire to understand the barriers blocking us from achieving our desires. I know I see myself in that place from time to time. Life becomes busy and I sometimes forget to project my most important desire – to feel happy – around with me the entire day. Stuff happens. For example, an angry conversation with a colleague, and I climb on my high horse for awhile and talk about how it should not be the way it is. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to check in with can help you move off old patterns much more quickly.

Now, I realize that’s in opposition to feeling the way I want – to feel good. But every now and again, my ego desires to get in front and center. And it will – but not for very long.

I remember to accept what’s happening for all that it is. Have a look in your mirror, strip any judgment from the event, person or myself. Then release it. I accept what is, no matter what it seems like. You can manifest perfect Law of Attraction Relationships when you release yourself from fear and bondage.

Remember the idea is to be in harmony with what you WANT. Everyone desires to know what our personal barriers are to acquiring what we want. But honing in on what is blocking you and having what you want is in direct opposition to the Law of Attraction. Meaning, you only want to look for what is blocking you so that you can ease yourself, pivot off that and begin moving properly in the direction of what emotions you should have for what you DO want.

Think about what your life would be like if you were able to bring into the world what you wanted, if you weren’t in the ALLOWING mode. Then you’d have no idea how you were getting what you were getting. You would not understand your personal emotional guidance system. You would not understand how to model and replicate creating and manifesting. It would be the Law of Variability – there’d be no congruity and that is not a law at all. Start empowering yourself right now and experience Law of Attraction Love.

The Law of Attraction keeps things concrete and continuous with no variances involved. The main point to comprehend is that a Universal Law is constant under all circumstance.

Law of Attraction Coach

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes…

Recently I received an email from a subscriber. He asks … I am attempting to create my desires but fear and anxiety keep creeping in. And then there is a build-up of bad habits, lack conditioning, low self-esteem and the tendency to focus on my past failures. What can I do? The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive realization in your experience.

For one thing, I highly commend this person for posing this question. For one, he accepts that part of his active thoughts and feelings are negative. A lot of people I know doing this work, including the self-titled ’spiritual’ people, refuse to accept that they have any negativity active in their energy. It wouldn’t be spiritual after all. Please!

It is key to know what’s happening in your mind and own it. The fact that you think and feel this way indicates that it’s present in your vibration. You’ll continue attracting situations that reflect back to you reasons to feel anxious and disappointed. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and is not difficult to grasp.

Einstein said: No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. He meant tapping into the a greater level of being. Personally this entails releasing into Universal Love and Abundance, or the Divine unifying power of Source. Would it not be great if we could just press a button and let go and let God, as it’s said? Simpler theorized than put into practice most of the time for most of us. But, you can begin by committing to a daily exercise of looking for things to be happy for. Search for the love and goodness in your life as it is right now. That is a huge and quick vibration raiser.

If you can do your best to make peace with where you are you will instantly be letting go of resisting what you desire. Do not worry that making peace with your current circumstances will carry more of it to you. It will not. But you will be doing the very important step of letting go of resistance. You see, prolonged thinking on your circumstances causes you to attract more of that same stuff. So letting go a little and searching for things to love will soften your vibration. You cannot hold your attention on something and not have it as a part of your vibration.

After you’ve clarified what you desire to bring into your life, the next step is to find out what thoughts and feelings you actually have around the likelihood of your creating what you want. Is worthiness an issue? Is your track record and the past getting your attention? I recommend writing down what is present in your beliefs and then writing affirmations that soften little by little until you can perceive what it is like to already be experiencing what you desire as if it is your present life experience.

Law of Attraction Relationships

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationships Coach , writes…

What if you were sure, you absolutely believed that your finances, your body, your love life, your children, your career, your house, and everything else in your experience was absolutely PERFECT – just the way it is right now?!

How about if your mind, your present mindset was that your entire life – just as it is at this moment – barring any changes, or desire for any change, was perfect?

That is the meaning of an UNCONDITIONAL LIFE.

Think about that for a minute. Unconditionally living means that nothing needs to be different for you to experience freedom, joy, peace, abundance, and fulfillment. What a concept.

Many times we as deliberate creators desire to understand the barriers blocking us from achieving our desires. I know I see myself in that place from time to time. Life becomes busy and I sometimes forget to project my most important desire – to feel happy – around with me the entire day. Stuff happens. For example, an angry conversation with a colleague, and I climb on my high horse for awhile and talk about how it should not be the way it is. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to check in with can help you move off old patterns much more quickly.

Now, I realize that’s in opposition to feeling the way I want – to feel good. But every now and again, my ego desires to get in front and center. And it will – but not for very long.

I remember to accept what’s happening for all that it is. Have a look in your mirror, strip any judgment from the event, person or myself. Then release it. I accept what is, no matter what it seems like. You can manifest perfect Law of Attraction Relationships when you release yourself from fear and bondage.

Remember the idea is to be in harmony with what you WANT. Everyone desires to know what our personal barriers are to acquiring what we want. But honing in on what is blocking you and having what you want is in direct opposition to the Law of Attraction. Meaning, you only want to look for what is blocking you so that you can ease yourself, pivot off that and begin moving properly in the direction of what emotions you should have for what you DO want.

Think about what your life would be like if you were able to bring into the world what you wanted, if you weren’t in the ALLOWING mode. Then you’d have no idea how you were getting what you were getting. You would not understand your personal emotional guidance system. You would not understand how to model and replicate creating and manifesting. It would be the Law of Variability – there’d be no congruity and that is not a law at all. Start empowering yourself right now and experience Law of Attraction Love.

The Law of Attraction keeps things concrete and continuous with no variances involved. The main point to comprehend is that a Universal Law is constant under all circumstance.

Law of Attraction Coach

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes…

Recently I received an email from a subscriber. He asks … I am attempting to create my desires but fear and anxiety keep creeping in. And then there is a build-up of bad habits, lack conditioning, low self-esteem and the tendency to focus on my past failures. What can I do? The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive realization in your experience.

For one thing, I highly commend this person for posing this question. For one, he accepts that part of his active thoughts and feelings are negative. A lot of people I know doing this work, including the self-titled ’spiritual’ people, refuse to accept that they have any negativity active in their energy. It wouldn’t be spiritual after all. Please!

It is key to know what’s happening in your mind and own it. The fact that you think and feel this way indicates that it’s present in your vibration. You’ll continue attracting situations that reflect back to you reasons to feel anxious and disappointed. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and is not difficult to grasp.

Einstein said: No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. He meant tapping into the a greater level of being. Personally this entails releasing into Universal Love and Abundance, or the Divine unifying power of Source. Would it not be great if we could just press a button and let go and let God, as it’s said? Simpler theorized than put into practice most of the time for most of us. But, you can begin by committing to a daily exercise of looking for things to be happy for. Search for the love and goodness in your life as it is right now. That is a huge and quick vibration raiser.

If you can do your best to make peace with where you are you will instantly be letting go of resisting what you desire. Do not worry that making peace with your current circumstances will carry more of it to you. It will not. But you will be doing the very important step of letting go of resistance. You see, prolonged thinking on your circumstances causes you to attract more of that same stuff. So letting go a little and searching for things to love will soften your vibration. You cannot hold your attention on something and not have it as a part of your vibration.

After you’ve clarified what you desire to bring into your life, the next step is to find out what thoughts and feelings you actually have around the likelihood of your creating what you want. Is worthiness an issue? Is your track record and the past getting your attention? I recommend writing down what is present in your beliefs and then writing affirmations that soften little by little until you can perceive what it is like to already be experiencing what you desire as if it is your present life experience.

Law of Attraction Love

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationships Coach , writes…

Just over four years ago I found out what my core fear was concerning having and sustaining a mutual, healed and healing intimate marriage. The light went on, so to speak, and since then not only have I been standing on a fresh, renewed mindset to live my life from, but what I share with other people assists them in uncovering their barriers to experiencing love as well.

We are raised with tons of contradictory messages concerning what a relationship is. A lot of those messages arise from our dysfunctional family lives and TV and from deep down in our subconscious. But these days, in far greater numbers than ever, people are looking for meaningful connections, spiritual healing, hope, and freedom from the tyranny of their thoughts. Fortunately, the answers lie inside of you. It is no longer about measuring up, having the right background, career or college education, mingling with the right groups, speed dating or being a part of the right online dating service. The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive manifestation in your experience.

“God’s will for me is perfect happiness” This is a workbook lesson from “A Course in Miracles.” Sometimes I think spiritual people don’t realize it’s okay to have wants, goals or something to aspire to. That is our inner creative drive. Made in the form and likeness, it is natural to contain the urge to create and manifest our desires with whatever method is helpful to you. Coming together in relationships is one way we expand, heal, and remember who we are. Oftentimes I have found my love relationship to be the platform for blissful personal growth, the reflection of my unhealed ego and opportunity to let go on a deep level and let God. It’s all those things and so much more.

If having mutually affectionate, lasting love relationship is a prospect that makes your heart sing, and once you truly understand that God wants you to be outrageously fulfilled, creatively motivated, perfect and happy, the only issue question remaining is “Why do you think you have not experienced success?” The simple answer is fear. Fear manifests in many different disguises, justifications, and excuses. In the end, we fear understanding ourselves as the love that we are. You can attract wonderful Law of Attraction Relationships when you free yourself from fear and bondage.

It isn’t un-spiritual to desire love, sex, fun, intimacy, laughter, and play. It is un-spiritual to suppress your creativity and your talents. I understand about fear, I was one of the most resistant people I knew in the area of truly letting my guard down. If you want to share your life in perfect partnership you have to take back your power, take one hundred percent responsibility for your messes and ask for Spirit to drive. Obviously what you’ve been trying has not been working. Einstein said, “No problem can be solved from the exact level of consciousness that created it”. You must take it to a higher level. Thankfully we have support groups, trained professionals, counselors, coaches and even home study courses to help us see what is in the way of building lasting loving relationships.

A loving, fulfilled intimate relationship is available for anyone who desires it. Will it always be perfect? No. The ego wouldn’t ever let you off the hook that easily. But I am certain that what you’re searching for is trying to find you. So find some assistance to help you remove the barriers in your mind, and I wish you all the bliss your heart can hold.

Law of Attraction Coach

What is the most efficient way to attract wealth when I don’t have enough? How do I become aligned with my desires for plenty of money when I don’t make enough money presently?

How do I get more money to manifest when I become anxious and even occasionally hopeless about money ever being manifested?

You could be thinking “I realize that I am out of alignment with what I desire. And I know that I cannot manifest more wealth when I have my focus on what I don’t want.However, aligning my limiting thoughts and emotions are like reigning in wild horses.”

How do you remedy this?

The solution is asking yourself some important questions about your energy and beliefs you hold about yourself. What do you believe about money? What were you taught concerning creating wealth? How about people who have large amounts of wealth? What beliefs do you have about what it takes to receive money?

A lot of good people have found themselves in a swamp with respect to money and debt. A lot of good people have been laid off, lost their homes, and have put themselves into what seems like heaping debt. The first thing many people do is react, point fingers and feel ashamed. The next thing they do is reach for fear, anxiety, stress and proceed to feel more blame and shame. According to the Law of Attraction, your thoughts are just going to reflect back to us more opportunities for us to feel stressed, shameful and angry.

The only person who judges you is you. The Universe loves you and does not look at you with blame or shamefulness.

The most effective way I know how to move your thinking on such a loaded topic as money is to find out what the resisting energy is to begin with. Jot it down in a journal if you want. What were you taught from childhood and about your current situation?

The next step is to shift your thinking up a small amount at a time. Let’s make some bridging thoughts that will shift your thoughts from where you are right now to where you want to be. You can use Positive Affirmations Self Esteem to help you in the process of shifting your energy!

- It sure feels gross to be so anxious about wealth.

- I guess I was really told to be cautious and careful with the money I make. Like there’s never enough.

- I’ve embraced a belief that doesn’t serve me.

- No wonder it’s hard for me to acquire money and long-standing financial wealth.

- It isn’t what I desire to believe. However, here I am with thoughts that are not my own and it’s inhibiting my happiness.

- I guess they were just telling me the best advice they could. They were taught about scarcity too.

- If I think about it, other parts of my life are working and that vibration comes easy to me.

- I have wonderful friends. My body works really well. I create great information like this article.

- Okay, so now I desire to change something about my thoughts about money.

- I don’t have to deal with it all right now.

- But I can ease up some and let go of the stress and anxiety just a bit right now.

- I do not have to pressure myself to change and immediately start creating money.

- I can take it one step at a time.

- I feel good when I don’t pressure myself.

- I feel better.

- I can take a deep breath (breathe) and relax just a bit about money.

- I realize when I take it easy, creative ideas begin to emerge. Ideas about how to create more money.

- How can I provide value or cause my job to be even more valuable so I can solve other people’s problems?

- People, employers, and companies pay when you can give better solutions to their problems.

- What can I do to create huge value so I can be compensated with more money?

- Money is all about an energy exchange after all.

- Universe send me a wonderful idea on how I can create more value.

- Universe, how might I offer more value to my employer, or other people?

- I could also begin to love what I have right now.

- I could be grateful for the companies (utilities, electricity, internet, landlord, etc.) that have all extended me their trust.

- Wow. I am worthy of their trust.

- I am worthy of a lot of amazing things and experiences.

- It’s natural for me to have amazing things.

- It’s ok for me to desire more money.

- It’s ok for me to come into alignment with my desire for more money.

- I really feel like I’m in a much better attraction point now.

- And everything I have to do is continue shifting my vibration whenever I feel ‘less than’ about anything, namely money.

The only thing it takes to pull in your wild horses is to try a little focused thought. If you will practice these types of statements every day, while trying to strive for better and better feeling thoughts, you’ll see the shifts and then new experiences coming in to help you let in more money. Happy vibe tweaking!

Teresa was a thirty-five-year-old photographer who knew that she had some drinking issues. For instance, within the past month she has experienced the need to have two or three drinks before going to work, two weeks ago she tested positive for a urine alcohol test where she is employed, two months ago she got pulled over by the state highway patrol for “driving under the influence”, and lastly, for around seven months she has begun to fail to remember what she does and says when she drinks with her buddies.

Like hosts of other drinkers, Teresa’s experiences with alcohol started out little by little and stayed at this pace for quite some time due to the fact every so often she engaged in occasional social drinking. As a matter of fact, for around two years, every time she went out to drink, she made sure to drink in moderation. Something about her drinking circumstances, however, seemed to drastically change when she got divorced from her husband.

So She Can Get Over the Breakup of Her Husband More Painlessly, Teresa Made Up Her Mind That She Will Start Hanging Out More Regularly With Some of Her Pals Who Love to Party

Teresa got exceedingly “down” about the breakup with her husband, and as a way to abstain from dwelling on her disheartening feelings she came to the conclusion that she would start going out more often with some of her buddies who love to whoop it up and drink.

Quite sincerely, Teresa believed that having fun almost every day by getting a “buzz” by drinking with her buddies would help her come to terms with the loss of her husband more rapidly.

Teresa’s Drinking Escalates Greatly the More Habitually She Goes to Family Get-Togethers, Private Parties, Sporting Events, Happy Hours, and Dinner Dates With Her Friends

It didn’t take too long, nevertheless, before her drinking increased considerably the more habitually she went to and drank at family get-togethers, dinner dates, private parties, happy hours, and sporting events with her buddies. In addition, the fact that her drinking buddies were all considerably younger than she was and therefore able to party and drink harder and more frequently was one of the reasons why she didn’t direct more of her attention to her increased drinking. In short, she was drinking and having tons of fun just like everyone else in her group of pals without giving much thought to the unhealthy consequences of her hazardous and abusive drinking.

Yet somewhere in the recesses of her mind she realized that she most probably needed alcohol rehab but sidestepped the thought as much as she could.

Teresa Gets a Physical, Owns up to the Truth About Her Abusive and Hazardous Drinking to Her Physician, and Owns up to the Facts About Her Constant Negativity

One late afternoon during her twelve month physical exam, her doctor asked her if she drank alcohol. Not wanting to tell “stories” to her physician, Teresa admitted that she often drinks more than she should. In truth, she stated that she routinely drinks in an abusive and irresponsible manner. Then Teresa informed her healthcare professional about her general state of despair. More to the point, she stated that shattered relationships many times caused a disheartening cycle of events characterized by increased drinking which further resulted in more dismal feelings that, in turn, resulted in more drinking. And this is precisely what happened when she and her husband got divorced seven months ago.

When her doctor heard this, he told Teresa that according to various alcoholism facts and statistics on alcoholism he was researching, alcoholism and depression often take place in the same person. He then told her that some of the alcohol statistics, research investigations, and facts he has been reading about also underscore the fact that individuals who drink in a hazardous and abusive manner and who also suffer from depression need to obtain treatment for both medical situations.

Teresa’s Doctor Makes an Appointment for a Psychological Evaluation and For an Alcohol Dependency and Alcohol Abuse Assessment

Teresa’s healthcare professional then told her the following: “I am not trying to make an overly quick judgment, but with your medical condition we may be working with two separate issues. Consequently, I think we need to schedule an appointment for you to get an alcoholism and alcohol abuse evaluation from my partner, Dr. Vedda, who is a substance abuse and chemical dependency specialist. Whether your drinking circumstance is more correlated with alcohol abuse or alcohol addiction is not clear, but I feel that further exploration is required. Then I believe we need to make an appointment for you to get a psychological examination from another one of my partners, Dr. Kanter, who is a clinical psychologist. I want to get a deeper understanding about your sadness and see how much your drinking and depression are correlated.” Teresa displayed her approval of her healthcare practitioner’s plan of attack and thanked him for his time and assistance.

In reality, Teresa now felt a sense of personal success and increased spirituality because she finally got inspired to do something positive about her excessive drinking and her depression. Now all she had to do was to try to reduce her drinking and get ready for her appointments.

For several years alcoholism research has demonstrated the fact that there is strong association between alcohol dependency and serious health conditions.

As an illustration, in 2005, medical examination and alcohol abuse and alcoholism statistics showed that alcohol abuse and alcoholism cost the United States an estimated $220 billion annually. It can be stressed that this enormous alcohol-related cost was substantially more than the cost associated with cancer ($196 billion) or with obesity ($133 billion). While it is pertinent to stress these facts, it is also important to point out that an interrelationship exists between all three of these health conditions.

More precisely, chronic alcohol abuse and alcoholism are also highly associated with obesity and with cancer.

Indeed, substance abuse research has demonstrated the fact that alcohol dependency can amplify the risk for various types of cancer, particularly cancer of the colon, voice box (larynx), liver, rectum, throat, kidneys, and the esophagus. Excessive and recurring drinking can also lead to immune system problems and impairment to the fetus during pregnancy.

Irresponsible Drinking Breaks Down the Individual’s Organs and Systems

Additionally, if alcoholism continues over a period of years, the individual’s body organs will likely be affected in a negative manner. For example, chronic, abusive drinking is particularly dangerous to the liver since the liver does most of the work of processing the alcohol that has been ingested. Extreme amounts of alcohol kills liver cells and destroys the ability of liver cells to redevelop. This medical condition leads to a progressive inflammatory malfunction of the liver that can ultimately lead to cirrhosis of the liver, a dangerous and potentially lethal disease.Heavy, long-term drinking not only can result in critical liver damage, but it can also lead to damage to the heart and to the brain. Physical damage this critical may be unalterable and may, in turn, lead to serious disease or an untimely death.

The Critical Nature of Alcohol Treatment

It is essential, consequently, to know how to identify the different alcoholism symptoms and the “alcohol signs” so that the alcohol addicted person can be given the opportunity to get the professional alcohol rehabilitation he or she requires.

Alcoholism and Sophisticated Brain Exploration

Fortuitously, medical investigation is relentlessly generating unique and significant information. Recent alcoholism research supplies an excellent example. Stated another way, for approximately the past ten years, sophisticated brain-imaging scanning devices have shown that repetitive and long lasting irresponsible drinking changes the makeup of the brain to a substantial extent, consequently resulting in brain disease that can last months, years, or possibly as long as the individual lives.

More exactly, medical investigation has shown that individuals who have been drinking abusively for an extensive length of time increase their risk for developing permanent and substantial modifications in the brain.

This type of damage may be indirectly associated with the drinker’s poor overall health or directly related to the alcohol’s effects on the brain or to severe liver disease.

Malnutrition, Hazardous Drinking, and Mental Disorders

As a final illustration of various health problems that are to a large extent associated with alcoholism, take into account the fact that according to scientific exploration, the abusive and repeated abuse of alcohol can lead to erosive gastritis, a condition that reduces the absorption of nutrients, vitamins, and minerals.

This type of organ failure is correlated with malnutrition and to a variety of serious neurological and mental disorders including sleep disturbances, memory loss, and psychosis such as Wernicke’s Encephalopathy and Korsakoff’s syndrome. This latter medical problem is a lasting debilitating condition that is characterized by repetitive memory and learning problems.

The Importance of Education and the Hope for Recovery, Self Esteem, and Personal Happiness That Result From Alcohol Treatment

It is obvious that repetitive, hazardous drinking is directly or indirectly related to many dangerous medical conditions that can and do lead to serious diseases and premature death. Such information needs to be stressed and presented to everyone in our society so that a multitude of individuals will be able to abstain from abusive drinking while others who have a drinking problem develop a positive attitude and get motivated to receive the quality rehabilitation they need. For without professional rehabilitation, most people who drink in an abusive and hazardous manner will not start the healing process and experience self esteem, personal happiness, and recovery that often results from sobriety.

It is a sad state of affairs when statistics tell us that more than 50 percent of all marriages end up in divorce, agreed that some are rushed into and based on rash decisions but some are not, some tried to make it last years, those are the ones I call PLR or Pity Led Relationships, right now you’re probably wondering what on earth I mean but all will make sense.

So why stray or look elsewhere? Why do people cheat? Why bother entering into a relationship especially if after a long time one of you goes and throws it all away.

Some relationships can start off being built on out of pity, you might feel sorry for someone who then becomes really attached to you, you may feel no one else likes you or ever will so why not stay with one another.

Building the foundation of a relationship this way usually means you have rushed it and started off on the wrong foot. You will probably not be a match on many levels including your social interests and your sexual preferences as you’re merely putting up with each other for now, but what about when that ‘for now’ turns into 5 or 10 years?

Your partner may come home from work and want to tell you all about the plug and play profit system they designed at work whereas you might want to talk about the football, you’ll both roll your eyes at one another and find yourself sat in different rooms of the house or even at someone else’s!

It is a real shame when this happens but it is a common thing, human nature takes over and we also get very complacent we take each other for granted rather than trying to see things from someone else’s point of view we just use home as a place to sleep, eat and drink, more of a hotel than a home, so going off and having an affair just ends up being a release of frustration.

So the next time you’re sat at work making a big decision about investment in stocks and what might be sat waiting in the oven for dinner remember that talking is going to always be the better option. It might not fix things but it is going to make them a heck of a lot easier on the both of you in the long run and you can get on with your lives.

How many children are born each year with fetal alcohol syndrome? How many people’s lives are cut short due to excessive and abusive drinking? How many people get injured or lose their lives in alcohol related traffic accidents every year? How many individuals lose their lives every year because of drinking problems? How many junior high, high school, and college students lose their lives every year due to an alcohol overdose? How many people are the victims of alcohol related crime or violence each and every year? How many people face serious consequences in their lives because they received a DUI conviction? How many people die each year from a condition that is totally preventable, such as alcohol poisoning? On an annual basis, how many alcoholics fail to get the professional alcohol treatment they need?

Why Would Anyone Want to Drink in an Abusive and Hazardous Manner?

So what’s the point in asking these questions? Basically to highlight the destructive and devastating nature of careless and excessive drinking. Indeed, and based on the above questions, I wonder why anyone would choose to drink in an irresponsible and hazardous manner.

Stated more forcefully, with the host of financial problems, health issues, employment difficulties, legal proceedings, and relationship dilemmas that are correlated with chronic alcohol abuse and alcoholism, why would any individual with good reasoning skills want to drink in a hazardous and excessive manner? If truth be told when some of the above topics are looked at more closely, unhealthy and abusive drinking becomes more illogical and makes even less sense.

Wouldn’t you think that heavy drinkers would be able to see some of the alcohol symptoms that they exhibit? In a similar way doesn’t it seem logical to think that many more families would involve themselves in an alcohol intervention for the person in the household who is an alcohol abuser or an alcoholic? What is more, wouldn’t you think that individuals who drink irresponsibly would try to learn more about their drinking behavior by reading about various alcohol related statistics?

After reviewing the alcohol abuse and alcohol dependency research literature, the point is so relevant that it needs to be stated again: With all of the destructive and debilitating effects that are directly or indirectly interlinked with repetitive and continuous alcohol dependency and alcohol abuse, why would any individual want to engage in careless and hazardous drinking?

What Can be Done About the Pervasive Nature of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism in Our Country?

So what can be done about the extensive nature of alcohol addiction and alcohol abuse in the U.S.?

  1. Our students need more relevant and more meaningful educational and preventative approaches and methods so that more students at all grade levels, including those at college, are “reached.
  2. With a similar line of reasoning, our students need to learn how to become problem solvers in life rather than gravitating to the “instant gratification” and the “quick fix” of a drug or alcohol abuse “buzz” or “high”.
  3. Individuals who are alcoholics or alcohol abusers need to look look at themselves candidly and ask why they are not getting the professional alcohol counseling they need.
  4. Society needs to get the message to more people about the dangerous and debilitating outcomes of unhealthy and abusive drinking.

There’s Room For Hope if Those Who Engage in Careless and Excessive Drinking Can Become Encouraged to Get the Alcohol Treatment They Require

There’s room for hope and optimism if people can start drinking in moderation and those who engage in excessive and abusive drinkingcan become encouraged to get the alcohol rehabilitation they require. Indeed, why put your loved ones through suffering, pain, and turmoil because of your careless and hazardous drinking when you have the power to control your life by drinking responsibly or even quitting drinking if you can’t control your drinking? Why not amplify your self esteem, positive attitude, and your personal happiness that result from alcohol rehab?